We’ll break down the blowback of affairs and uncover some of the hurts beyond the affair itself, tracing the origin of the feelings leftover even months and years after the initial affair.
Our Relationship’s Residual Effects
The accumulation of lost dreams, broken promises, disillusionment, regret, emotional setbacks, disenchantment, with the past romantic partners, and unrealistic expectations all make up your ex-factor. Consider the following:
- The cycle of despair and desperation
- Emotional histories repeating themselves
- Setting yourself for failure
The hardest part of creating a new relationship is stopping the old, negative emotional patterns and antiquated styles of intimacy and connection.